First thing that you want to remember is that every person who crosses your path is a reflection of your own thoughts. This co-worker came into your life because the Universe aligned your thoughts, emotions, and focus of what you have been concentrating on, whether it is a present thought or a past thought. You don't have to find the exact moment or know why this physical manifestation of the coworker came about; just realize that something has to change within you so that you don't repeat this kind of manifestation.

Visualizing that this person is nice and easy to get along won't solve the problem. You are trying to change another person and unless you have a magic wand that changes personalities just for your benefit, you'll have to take a different approach. Instead of changing this person, change your perception of this person and then visualize it.

Let's take this a step further.

When you go into the visualization mode of what you want, don’t concentrate on the problem of the co-worker, concentrate on the perfect solution that you would like to have. Concentrate on solving the problem. Visualize that you are at work and you are getting along with your co-worker. You work on projects together, you enjoy each other's company, and you see this all in the now.
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